Sorry I was in a big hurry to get my site up and running that the first one I did which is Syndie630 is under my chlteam.com and the second is Syndie under WichitaThunder.com.  I always get in a hurry and sign in under Syndie630 and so when I add everyone to be friends I forget that I already have you under Syndie so I am not sure if I can get rid of the other one and keep Wichita Thunder site.  So If I add you under my friends twice I am so sorry.... just deny the one under Syndie630.  Thanks everyone!!